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Personalising a Funeral Service

Every life is unique, and a funeral service can be too. We believe a farewell should reflect the individual being honoured - their personality, values, passions, and the relationships that mattered most to them.

There are no rules about what a funeral should look like. Whether you’re planning something traditional, contemporary, or completely personal, we’re here to help you create a service that feels right for you and your family.

A Service That Reflects a Life

Families often choose to personalise a service in ways that celebrate who their loved one was, rather than following a set format. This can be as simple or as detailed as you wish.

Options include:

  • Personalised music choices, live or recorded
  • Readings, poems, prayers, or song lyrics with special meaning
  • Family members or friends sharing memories or tributes
  • Photo or video tributes celebrating their life
Alternative Funeral Vehicles

For some families, the final journey is an important part of the farewell. In addition to traditional hearses, we can arrange a range of alternative funeral vehicles to reflect personality, interests, or lifestyle, such as:

  • Horse-drawn carriages
  • Motorcycle hearses
  • Vintage or classic vehicles
  • Themed or customised vehicles

We can talk you through the options and advise on availability and suitability.

Symbolic & Meaningful Gestures

Many families find comfort in including a symbolic moment during or after the service.

Popular choices include:

  • Dove release, symbolising peace, love, and a gentle farewell
  • Candle lighting or flower placement
  • Wearing a favourite colour or theme instead of traditional black
  • A moment of reflection, music, or shared silence
Personal Touches & Keepsakes

Small details often hold great meaning:

  • Memory tables with photographs or personal items
  • Orders of service personalised with photos, quotes, or messages
  • Memory cards for guests to write messages for the family
  • Charity donations in place of flowers
Environmentally Conscious Choices

For families wishing to reflect environmental values, we can also discuss:

  • Eco-friendly coffins or urns
  • Woodland or natural burial options
  • Sustainable service choices and alternatives to printed materials
We’re Here to Guide You

You don’t need to have all the answers. Our role is to gently guide you through the possibilities, offer ideas, and support you in creating a farewell that truly honours your loved one.


Personalisation is always your choice  - there is no pressure to include anything that doesn’t feel right.

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