My Funeral Wishes
Record Your Funeral Preferences with Peace of Mind
Planning ahead can bring comfort - not just to you, but to those you love. An Expression of Wishes form is a simple but important document that allows you to record your personal preferences and choices for your funeral or memorial service. It’s not legally binding, but it serves as a powerful guide for your family, helping them to honour your wishes during an emotional and difficult time.
What Is an Expression of Wishes Form?
An Expression of Wishes form is a document where you can outline how you would like your funeral to be carried out. It gives you the opportunity to express your values, beliefs, and the way you want to be remembered. This can include details such as:
- Whether you prefer a burial or cremation
- The type of service you’d like (religious, non-religious, or a celebration of life)
- Music, readings, or poems that are meaningful to you
- Who you would like to speak or participate in the ceremony
- Dress code, flowers, or charitable donations in lieu of flowers
- Your thoughts on where your remains should rest or be scattered
Why Complete One?
Grief can be overwhelming, and making arrangements without guidance can be stressful for loved ones. By completing an Expression of Wishes form, you are:
- Easing the burden on family and friends
- Ensuring your preferences are understood and respected
- Creating a meaningful tribute that reflects your life and personality
- Opening the door for conversations with loved ones about end-of-life choices
Is It a Legal Document?
An Expression of Wishes form is not a legal document. However, it clearly sets out your wishes for those responsible for arranging your funeral. It complements your will or pre-paid funeral plan, but can be updated more easily and informally as your preferences change.
How to Get Started
We provide a downloadable Expression of Wishes form you can fill out at your own pace. You can also speak to one of our team members who can help guide you through the process with care and confidentiality.
Download the Expression of Wishes Form here.
Alternatively, you can complete an online version here.
Keep It Safe - and Share It
Once completed, keep your Expression of Wishes form in a safe place and let your loved ones know where to find it. You may also choose to leave a copy with your solicitor, executor, or funeral director to ensure your preferences are known when they’re needed most.
Further Assistance and Guidance
We're here to help. If you’re unsure about how to start, or simply want to talk things through, please don’t hesitate to reach out. It’s never too early - or too late - to plan with intention and care.
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